Friday, June 21, 2013

Thursday, June 20, 2013

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How to Make Your Woman Feel Beautiful: Ten Tips for the Guys

If you have a woman in your life that makes you happy, you should return the favor by making her feel beautiful. Women need to feel they are beautiful to the man that loves them or they will feel self-conscious and ugly. If you're not sure how to go about this, below are ten tips for guys on how to make your girl feel beautiful.

1 - Compliment her. One of the most obvious ways to make your girl feel beautiful is of course to compliment her. But keep in mind the complements have to be more specific than, hey, you look hot tonight, though that might not hurt. Try to give your compliments at times its obvious you're not after something else and try to make them about things she will believe.

2 - Show her. If you look at her as it start struck, or watch her dress, it lets her know you like what you are seeing. Also, if you act as if you want her, not just it, that helps too, especially when she's naked. In short, if you make it very clear by your actions that you think she is the most beautiful thing, than she will see that, and feel it.

3 - Show her off. Another thing you can do is to show her off when out in public. Make remarks about her to others, take her special places. By her something to show off what you see. Do whatever you can do show her that you are proud to have her as yours. This will make her feel like a beautiful queen.

4 - Demonstrate it. Don't just tell her you think she's beautiful, or she'll stop believing you. You need to continually show her that you think she is beautiful with your actions. Buy her sexy clothes, take her dancing and ignore everybody else, woo her with sweet gestures and let her hear you thank your lucky stars she is yours.

5 - Brag about her to others. Hearing from other people that you've been talking about her in very flattering ways is a great way to let your girl know just how beautiful you think she is.

6 - Act as if it's a known fact. Live your life with her as if it's a well know fact that she is the most beautiful woman in the world, and she will start to get used to it, and eventually accept that you truly do see her as such.

7 - Take pictures of her. For reasons that are difficult to understand, people find it a complementary thing to have their picture taken, especially women. Asking your girl to pose for you, in whatever scenario is appropriate for the two of you, tells her that you find her beautiful and want to capture the image for posterity.

8 - Tell her how she's better than others you see when together. When you're watching television together, or go out or whenever the two of you are together and another female person happens by, tell her that you think she is prettier, or sexier, or smarter or whatever. And mean it. She'll feel like the most precious thing ever.

9 - Never, ever look at another woman. If you want your girl to know that you find her beautiful, don't look at other women; even when she's not around. Just don't do it. Nothing makes a woman feel less beautiful than seeing her man ogling another woman.

10 - Support her. Finally, since self-confidence is critically to looking and feeling beautiful, do everything in your power to help boost her confidence in herself. Support her and be kind. Don't judge and always be on her side. All of these things will help her feel and look as beautiful as you see her.

These ten tips for guys on how to make your girl feel beautiful are for those men out there who love and cherish their women and want them to know they see the beauty in them that the rest of the world may not. If you are such a man, I hope some or all of these tips help you to show your girl that you do indeed see her a the most beautiful thing ever. Good luck.

Sunday, June 16, 2013

How To Love A Woman


Why is it so hard to move on from a love that never was?

Why is it so hard to move on from a love that never was?
I ask myself this question every day. To be honest, I really don't know the answer. I guess it's because you felt so strongly for the person. You woke up every morning knowing that seeing them would
make the rest of your day perfect. Realising that they were the only person you could ever dream of being with, and even though you may never be what they want or need, you still keep hoping hat one
day they would feel the same. I think it's hard because you can't come to terms with the fact that you loved them and they didn't love you in return. I guess I just answered my own question too. Maybe

Saturday, June 15, 2013

Support your woman

Is your wife having a bad day or bad days? Have you stopped to really think and evaluate how you can be a help to her? What does she appreciate that could help brighten her day? Start with the simplest easiest thing you can do. Sincerely connect with her and how she's feeling. If it's you she's upset with, take this wise advice I once read.

#1: Share in your own words what your wife is saying. Instead of being DEFENSIVE, try to find a reason to see how you did do what she feels. Then do something about it to let her know that you have a change of heart or attitude. For example, if your wife complains that you spend too much time with your hobby or job, you could make the decision to create a special date night a week to start fulfilling the need for more connection.

#2. Send a thinking about you text throughout the day to encourage your wife that you are there for her

#3. Write a love letter

#4. Call your wife just to check up on her

#5. If you can afford it, buy a small treat that lights her day like a rose or her favorite candy bar.

#6. Persist in kindness and love (even if she's upset with you)

#7. Don't take her concerns lightly (just because it wouldn't bother you)

#8 .Respect and value her difference

#9. Understand that the same sensitiveness she reveals in pain is also what helps her to be a great wife and mother who is there for you when you need it and the children

#10. DON'T EVER GIVE UP on helping your wife! God never gave up on us, and your wife has been there for you in the good, the bad, and th

Removing her clothes

Removing her clothes
When you begin undressing a woman, it should be slow and enticing. Unless you are having steamy sex, when you make love to a woman remove her clothes one article at a time. Keep in mind that sometimes leaving something on can also be erotic. Begin by teasing her. Remove her blouse but not her bra. Continue kissing and caressing her through her bra, until she is ready for you to touch her breasts directly. Use slow, rhythmic back and forth movements to stimulate her breasts. You can circle the breast with your hands or your mouth. Slowly her nipples will become erect, indicating her arousal. 
After stimulating both breasts like this, you can remove her bra. Removing a woman’s bra can be quite tricky. If you are not sure how to do this it can be an awkward moment. The best way to learn how to do this is to practice when you partner is not at home. Practice fastening and unfastening the clasp so the next time you have the chance the movement is smooth and fluid. 
Remain at the upper half of her body until you have caressed her fully. As you sense her longing increase, begin to slowly move your hands toward the lower half of her body.
When you are planning a romantic evening with your partner, the setting can be especially important for how the night will unfold. We are not just talking about the physical setting. Our Venusian readers tell us that the emotional setting is the most neglected area for women. Most women need to feel relaxed in order to be in the mood. If she is preoccupied with other obligations, or stress she may need to deal with these before feeling like making love. The simplest way to help her relax is by encouraging her to talk about the stress she is feeling. Ask her honestly about her life, her day, and the things that are on her mind. Show her you care about her by listening to her talk. Take your time. Keep in mind she may have a lot to talk about. Once she is able to release her stress she will be much more focused on you and your evening. If you truly pay attention to this area you will both be amazed at the heightened response you'll share. 
The actual setting is important too. If you have gone out to dinner or you’re having a simple dinner at home, the lighting, music, and overall ambience can help her to relax further. Light some candles and play some soft music. This will help her to focus her own desire to be touched, and touch in return. 
If you’re at home a hot bath can also help a woman to relax. Run the water, add some bubbles, and play some music. Give her the special treatment of time to get in the mood. All too often men forget that while their sexual desires are encouraging them to move faster, women need to warm up slowly. It is this slow process that connects a woman with her sexual needs. By gently stimulating her one step at a time, her desire to make love is awakened

Give Her Specific Compliments

Give Her Specific Compliments
Try your hardest to notice when she cuts her hair or buys a new dress. If you’re not sure if the top she’s wearing is new, ask her. Even it’s one she’s had for years, you’ll still get the opportunity to tell her she looks great, and she’ll be flattered that she can still get your attention while wearing her old standards.
Whatever you do, be specific: saying she looks “nice” isn’t going to cut it. Tell her you like her earrings, the color of her dress, whatever; just point out something specific that you like about her appearance. It will make your compliment seem more genuine.

How to Go Down On a Woman

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Why Do Men Get Jealous

           

           Why Do Men Get Jealous 

     Many words can be used to describe men as a species. "Horny" is one of them. As is "Gullible", "Egotistical", and "Single-Minded" (Yes I know that is two words stuck together. You don't need to point that out). But one word that almost always applies when talking about men is "Hypocritical".

     You see, a man will stare at a hundred different girls while standing there with his girlfriend. That same man will openly drool over the attractive waitress's breasts as she bends over to take his order. Yet, if that man's girlfriend takes so much as one passing glance at an attractive male waiter's ass... well... that man will pitch a fit. The question before us today is, "Why will a man that openly appreciates the bodies of other females get angry when his girlfriend looks at another man?" The answer is actually really simple... Because the woman is his property.

     Now wait a minute. Before you women get ready to send me an angry letter laced with death-threats, just hear me out.

     Men, for as long as anyone can remember, have been territorial animals. It started with land. Men would seek out what land they want, fight to get it, then they make jackasses of themselves trying to defend it until some larger man comes along and takes it from them. 

     Eventually, due to some bad judgment calls, men started to think of women as property. The same rules that applied to land were carried over. A man would seek out what woman he wanted, he would fight to get her, then he would make a jackass out of himself trying to keep her until some "larger" man showed up and showed that woman that the first man had a small penis.

     Yup. That's right. Why don't men like their women looking at other men? We have small penises. We know we have small penises, and we know that the other guy you are staring at has a larger penis than we do. We think that if you look at him long enough, you will realize how much larger a penis he has, and leave us to be with him... and his penis... make sense? Good. Glad I could be of some assistance.

Friday, June 14, 2013

Step 15 How Long Should You Wait Before You Have Sex with Someone

Step 15 How Long Should You Wait Before You Have Sex with Someone 


So, you've met someone that you like a lot, the two of you have started spending time together, going on dates, and maybe even done some smooching. You really like this person and you are very attracted to them physically and emotionally. It's only natural that at this point you probably want to have sex with this person you are dating, but you're uncertain of how long you should wait before you have sex with them. Well, I hope you at least are.

There's really no magic length of time that is right to wait before you have sex with someone you are dating, but as a general rule, the longer the better (just not too, too long). Studies have actually shown that couples who wait longer to have sex with each other have longer, more meaningful relationships than couples who jump right into the sack. Who'd a thunk it?

It really should come as no surprise. If you have sex with someone within the first week or few days of meeting them, you really barely know this person. So you are not really having sex with them, per se, you are having sex with their body. Odds are, that after a few more weeks or months, you're going to really get to know this person, find out you don't like them very much (let alone love them) and just end up regretting having sex with them.

If you are currently dating someone that you think you might have a chance of being with for a long time, you should wait about 2 - 3 months before you decide to have sex with them. You want to ensure that you build your relationship upon something more than just sex if you really want to be with someone for a long time. If you spend a few months getting to know each other, and not just having sex, it will be easier for the both of you to determine whether or not you are right for each other. If you just hop right into bed with them at the start of the relationship, your judgment will be clouded. As soon as the sex starts to get old, you may start to realize that they just aren't right for you, but by then it's too late.

On the other, you shouldn't wait years before you have sex with someone. That can cause a whole other set of problems. You may decide that you're ready to spend the rest of your life with a person you have been dating for years, but then have sex with them for the first time and not enjoy it at all. Now you've just wasted years of your life with someone that will probably never workout. It's sad but true. If the sex is not enjoyable, the relationship won't last.

So, if you're looking to play it safe, wait a few months, but definitely don't wait more than a year before you have sex with someone you are dateing



Sex position

Step13 Sex Position 


I always thought it was a myth that there are certain sex positions that can help a woman climax faster and better. Say it isn't so? If this is true, why haven't we been schooling our men? I took my inquiry to the sex-perts and uncovered that there are, in fact, such positions. Obviously, I'm going to share them with you -- that way, we can all be having the best sex of our lives! Read on for the top sex positions for achieving mind-blowing orgasms.

The butterfly position or modified missionary

With the woman on her back and her hips on the edge of the bed, the man penetrates her while standing. She then puts her legs over his shoulders and tilts her hips slightly upwards. This gives a wonderful angle for cervical stimulation with deep penetration that can produce some intense vaginal and uterine orgasms. With more shallow penetration, a man can stimulate the anterior vaginal wall to hit the G-spot."

Modified coital alignment technique

"A couple starts off in missionary position. Once a man penetrates a woman deeply, he allows her to bring her legs together between his. He then shifts his weight slightly forward so that the shaft of his erection is producing firm pressure and friction on her clitoris as he moves. This works very well for women that prefer to have clitoral stimulation during penetration to reach a very powerful orgasm."

Baring the scepter

"Either partner can perform this technique, although the bottom person's hands may be more able to pull it off. Form a ring with thumb and forefinger around the base of the penis. Then, pull down so the skin on the shaft is taut. This exposes more nerve endings and increases the penis' sensitivity -- it can also help maintain his erection. Engage in intercourse with your hand still encircling the base to send his pleasure soaring."

The counter top

"This is my favorite. It's when the woman is laying on her back on the counter or table while he enters standing. It's rough. There's pushing aside of papers, pepper shakers which add to the sense of urgency and inappropriateness. It's easy to maneuver and move the woman to slide along the counter. There is still contact. He goes deep and feels in control. It works all the way around. The keys are clothing, stuff in the way, and being in an open space. Still allows for connection while feeling dirty. It just works on so many levels. It's not about acrobats. It's about context."

The seated scissors

"This position allows the woman to have the control in order to determine the depth and angle of penetration, as well as how much clitoral stimulation she gets. With the man laying flat on his back and his knees bent, she straddles him with one leg to the side of his hip, and the other leg between his legs. The woman can then find just the right spot to grind against his pubic bone with him inside her. She controls the pace, the depth, and the amount of pressure and friction she receives. This is definitely a prescription for mind-blowing sex!"

Get off, stand up

"I'm no [pro], but whenever I've had sex standing up and holding my partner in the air or up against the wall, it's been mind-blowing for both of us. I suspect it taps into some of our innate gender differences: the strong man and the small woman, which in turn heightens the sexual experience. It also forces us to be in a full embrace, which furthers the emotional connection, as well as our physical one. It's physically demanding and not for all couples but for those that can, it's highly recommended."

Uncloaking the clit

"Given a woman's clitoris is buried under the clitoral hood and cushiony mons pubis surrounding it, it's no wonder this tiny nub rarely receives enough stimulation during intercourse to catch the O-train. Your hands, though, can help change that. Form a 'V' with your index and middle finger and point your fingers toward your feet. Press this V onto the mons pubis, with a finger to each side of the clitoris. Then, pull up, moving the skin with your hand. This should unveil the hard-to-reach clit in all its glory, exposing this little love button to a lot more action."

Shake 'n' bake

"If you're craving a quick-but-stimulating break from intercourse, this move is the perfect titillating timeout. To do it, the man withdraws and rests the tip of his penis on the clitoris. Then, hold the base of the penis and shake it quickly from side to side so that the head hits the clitoris with every wiggle. In doing so, you'll be stimulating both heads at once -- that of the clitoris and the penis -- which should send you both into paroxysms of pleasure."

Pushing tush

If your guy enjoys having his back door explored, reach around with both hands and grab both cheeks. From there, you can do 'Butt Yoga' (a technique whereby you spread the cheeks apart, then together, one up one down then vice versa) or 'Anal Yoga' (a technique whereby you place your middle fingers to the sides of the anus then spread them apart, then diagonally, then up and down). If that gets him hankering for more, feel free to delve deeper."

Happy scissors

Heating up hot spots aren't your hands-only talents. They're also great at moving body parts where you want them, and this technique is a prime opportunity. During intercourse, raise your legs, then have your man hold an ankle in each hand. From there, you can spread her legs apart, hold them together, part them at 80 degrees, the options are endless. And since the tendons of the legs pivot deep in the pelvic cavity, moving them around will subtly alter the below-the-belt sensations for you both. Talk about getting a leg up on a little variety!"


Step 19 A Woman Need From Her Man Relationship advice is important to every couple that is involved in a relationship. Whether you are a man or a woman, you should know the five things that every woman needs from her man. Surely there are other needs that could be added to this list, but I believe that these five "needs" are important to the success of your relationship. If you are a man, work at providing them. If you are a woman, know that things will not go well if your man doesn't see the value in providing you with these five things. 1. A woman needs to feel appreciated. Now you might be surprised that I don't start with her need for love. Most men will say, "I love you." But they just might not appreciate their woman in the way she wants to be appreciated. Feeling appreciation is such an important part of a woman's make-up. So many women are "givers" in that they do their best to meet the needs of the husbands and children. But even a giver needs to know that her efforts are appreciated. Now guys, it isn't enough for you to appreciate your wife or girlfriend, if you don't tell her. Many guys will say, "Well, she knows I appreciate her." That may be true, but there is something so nice about occasionally having that appreciation be put into words. Try statements like: "I love the way you fix yourself up for me." Or, "I really do appreciate the way you work so hard." But we all have a tendency to take our loved ones for granted. So you must make the effort to look at your lover and ask yourself what you like about her. Then tell her. We all like words of appreciation. 2. A woman needs to share a deep emotional bond with her man. Now what do I mean by that? Women love it when they see that their man is in touch with his feelings. By that they enjoy knowing that you have feelings and that you are not ashamed to share them. Many men have a hard time "opening up" to women. Maybe they don't like to talk much. Or they just don't like "touchy, feely" sorts of topics. When asked how they feel, they simply go into the "no comment" mode. If this is your natural approach to communication, you will be missing a serious and important part of your woman's needs, because a woman needs to know your feelings. She also needs to feel that the two of you have a deep emotional connection. When I was dating my wife (to be), she commented to me what she really liked was the fact that I understood her. She loved the fact that I listened to her feelings and validated them. She also liked the fact that I was willing to open up and share my own feelings when we talked. We quickly became "best friends" while we were dating. The best relationships are usually based upon a deep and strong emotional connection between the lovers. If she feels like you're listening to what she has to say, and that you can open up, you will be miles ahead of most other guys. 3. A woman wants you to feel that she is feminine and sexy. This is so logical, but it is surprising how many men have a tough time communicating their feelings about how they view their woman. Do you find her attractive and feminine? Do you find her sexy? Then tell her. There are so many creative ways to tell your woman that you find her attractive. Surprise her with a loving gaze when she is busy doing something routine (like making dinner). Smile at her when she asks you a question (be so carried away with her that you almost don't hear the question). Wink at her in the middle of a crowded room. You should also make a point of telling her directly how you feel. At a party, you might whisper in her ear: "You are the best looking woman in the room." Saying such things at a moment when everyone is preoccupied and put a sparkle in her eyes knowing that the two of you have your own special connection. Women are extremely verbal. They love it when a man talks to them in a sexy way. Tell her the sexy things you like about her. Whisper them in her ear when she least expects to hear those words (like in the middle of a movie or in a crowded elevator). Words can be VERY sexy to a woman. Be descriptive and provocative when you talk to her. Say something like, "I love the way your blonde hair shines in the glow of the setting sun" . . . "Do you know how good you make that black dress look? It would be nothing without your incredible figure inside." Don't say something that you don't mean or feel. Most women sense flattery quickly. When you flatter, you are telling someone what they want to hear, but which you don't believe. Flattery can hurt your relationship. On the other side of the coin, women, if your man tells you that you look sexy, smile and accept the compliment graciously. Nothing is more frustrating that to be with a woman of low self-esteem who retorts to your compliments with responses like, "Oh, come on. You know that I'm not really that good looking." Learn how to graciously receive his compliments and you'll get many more. 4. A man who knows how to be romantic. What does it mean to be romantic? Years ago I actually wrote a book called "Romance" for teenagers, and doing the research for it told me many things. Romance is a state of mind. Its finding the love and the joy in a relationship when everyone else is missing it. Romance is taking the time to notice the little things, like how your woman looks or how much you appreciate her. But even more important, its taking the time and doing something about it. No matter what your personality, you can be romantic if you make the effort. Many women love a man who read (or better yet, write) poetry. It doesn't have to rhyme, just put your thoughts and feelings into verse and surprise her with a note. Why do flowers make such a big impact upon a woman? I believe it is because they are such a temporary and even frivolous purchase. They'll often say something like, "Oh, you shouldn't have." But that's precisely why they appreciate them so much. They see that you are willing to "waste" your money on those fragrant blossoms knowing that you will make her day. And that's romantic. 5. A woman needs a man who won't take her grief. Many women purposely describe themselves as being "high maintenance." What they mean by this is often that they should have the right to be self-centered. Any man who puts up with a selfish woman is not doing her any favors. When a woman acts in a self-focused way, she will end up feeling a certain amount of guilt. And if you let her act this way, she will end up losing respect for you. A woman may not realize it, but this is really a test. She wants to see if a man is "man enough" to tame her. Now I am not saying that she wants her man to stifle or control her. But she does want to know that he won't take any of her grief. She wants to know that she respects himself and her too much to put up with her crap. All of us need to be held accountable for our actions. And any man who lets a woman get away with being self-focused, will only find that he has allowed her to become a demanding wench. It is far better to call her on her immaturity then let her play this game. Take my word for it, she will love you far more if you refuse to put up with any grief from her. Unless you enjoy being her servant. One of the foundation stones of any good relationship is respect. If a woman stops trusting her man, it will likely end up killing their relationship. As hard as it might be for you, if you really love your woman, you must "be the man" and tell her clearly that you expect her to treat you with respect. In return, of course, you will treat her with respect. Whenever she does something that is out of line, you'll call her on it, in the same way you would expect her to call you on your behavior if you act in a way that does not respect her. The Difference between a Man and a Woman; When Man needs your silver hugs and caressing kisses, Woman needs your mind as well. When Man taunts your falls and misses Woman shares a laughing spell. When Man tells you all will be right Woman tells you the mistake. When Man starts leaving during fight Woman sees through all that fake Woman, with her knowing eyes and blowing hair Man with muscles and puppy smile. Woman with her bounty fair Man's will last just for a while. Which is better; man or woman? woman or man? Men are gifts we love to open, while women that we can save.