Removing her clothes

Removing her clothes

When you begin undressing a woman, it should be slow and enticing. Unless you are having steamy sex, when you make love to a woman remove her clothes one article at a time. Keep in mind that sometimes leaving something on can also be erotic. Begin by teasing her. Remove her blouse but not her bra. Continue kissing and caressing her through her bra, until she is ready for you to touch her breasts directly. Use slow, rhythmic back and forth movements to stimulate her breasts. You can circle the breast with your hands or your mouth. Slowly her nipples will become erect, indicating her arousal. 

After stimulating both breasts like this, you can remove her bra. Removing a woman’s bra can be quite tricky. If you are not sure how to do this it can be an awkward moment. The best way to learn how to do this is to practice when you partner is not at home. Practice fastening and unfastening the clasp so the next time you have the chance the movement is smooth and fluid. 

Remain at the upper half of her body until you have caressed her fully. As you sense her longing increase, begin to slowly move your hands toward the lower half of her body.

When you are planning a romantic evening with your partner, the setting can be especially important for how the night will unfold. We are not just talking about the physical setting. Our Venusian readers tell us that the emotional setting is the most neglected area for women. Most women need to feel relaxed in order to be in the mood. If she is preoccupied with other obligations, or stress she may need to deal with these before feeling like making love. The simplest way to help her relax is by encouraging her to talk about the stress she is feeling. Ask her honestly about her life, her day, and the things that are on her mind. Show her you care about her by listening to her talk. Take your time. Keep in mind she may have a lot to talk about. Once she is able to release her stress she will be much more focused on you and your evening. If you truly pay attention to this area you will both be amazed at the heightened response you'll share. 

The actual setting is important too. If you have gone out to dinner or you’re having a simple dinner at home, the lighting, music, and overall ambience can help her to relax further. Light some candles and play some soft music. This will help her to focus her own desire to be touched, and touch in return. 

If you’re at home a hot bath can also help a woman to relax. Run the water, add some bubbles, and play some music. Give her the special treatment of time to get in the mood. All too often men forget that while their sexual desires are encouraging them to move faster, women need to warm up slowly. It is this slow process that connects a woman with her sexual needs. By gently stimulating her one step at a time, her desire to make love is awakened